To the Family of Joyce Mae St. Germain
I met Joyce in 1985. My daughter, Carri Owens, just happened to fall in love with her son, Michael St. Germain. We all just happened to live in Cary, NC. Carri lived with Michelle St. Germain, Michael’s sister – so that is how this young couple met. It did not take them long to decide to get married. Joyce and Roger and Bob Owens and I met and discussed our children’s plans and the ball started rolling.
We all set forth on a journey together, a journey that would be filled with much joy but also some sorrow. The “kids” moved close to the base where Michael was stationed. Everything was good for us all. Before we could get adjusted to one new family member we were told that we were going to be grandparents. Joyce and I are the same age, so I did not think either of us was ready to put on grannie clothes but we tried to get in the swing of it. After several months, the doctors told our sweet couple that something was not right. The next time I saw Joyce was in the hospital in Chapel Hill and we were mourning the birth and death of our first precious granddaughter, Megan. We were all devastated. Bob and I were now separated and Carri came home to me to plan a funeral.
The couple moved to New York and both were working. They were near Michael’s family who had moved to Conn. Within a year, Zachary was born and Joyce and I were excited Grandmothers!!! We saw each other and celebrated Zach’s christening in Conn. at their home.
Jack Lang had come into my life and before long we were planning another wedding.
Then came another happy day when Joyce and I could plan buying sweet little dresses for our beautiful little smiling granddaughter named Kate Lynn.
The years rolled by, and all our children were getting older. Zachary is now married and he and Nairi have 4 great children. Kate and Caitlan are still newlyweds and they are in their first house.
As the children were settling in the North Carolina mountains, Jack and I moved close to Carri and Mike and shortly afterward Joyce and Roger left sunny Florida to be nearby also. We have had great get togethers at parks and picnic grounds and even yards. We enjoyed the grandchildren and had smiles on our faces when we saw them coming and big smiles when they left us.
Joyce has gotten more and more sick and grew extremely tired. Covid-19 kept us apart this past year, lots of changes and giving up outings and giving hugs. The family will continue to miss getting hugs from a good wife, good mother, grandmother, and friend. I look forward to seeing you in heaven and catching up on our sweet talks. Goodbye my friend. Billie